Wisdom For Extraordinary Living
How do you become more confident?
I got slightly sidetracked on a tiny tangent and didn’t find my way back during the “being perceived as weak” part. My bad yo.
Here goes: The conterintuitive part is that allowing yourself to be vulnerable (even if you’re perceived as weak) is what’s going to allow people to connect with you from the heart! We *feel* each other much more than we *think* each other. :)
This enables you to be who you are and be cool with that! Talk about confidence. :)
One last point: One of my favorite philosophies is that “security” is not about being able to HAVE things. It about being able to HANDLE things!
Confidence comes from knowing you can *handle* whatever happens! Let’s work on our ability to handle things (with the getting better mindset) and give ourselves time as we naturally become more confident (+ competent!).
On Purpose,
Jacob
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5 Responses to How do you become more confident?
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I love how everything boils down to one single thing: be who you are, vulnerably and unashamedly. Everything else will fall into place.
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When you are most vulnerable …
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No one! …
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Don't hide…
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The bold you…
The beautiful you…